Diet From Hell

A valley vegan couple's fear of obesity was no picnic for their kids

Health food was always on the menu at the small south Scottsdale apartment where Blair and Kimu Parker lived with their three children.

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Zion’s mother, Kimu Parker, told police she knew her daughter needed help.
Zion’s mother, Kimu Parker, told police she knew her daughter needed help.

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The Parkers were vegan, a common but less-than-household term that sounds distinctly extraterrestrial, possibly because the star Vega has spawned numerous science-fiction aliens that bore the name Vegan. From a dietary perspective, vegans are vegetarians who shun not only meat but animal products like gelatin, eggs, cheese and milk.

The Parkers ran an austere home. The three Parker children, Michaela, 11, Caleb, 9 and Zion, 3, were home-schooled and slept together in one room. One of the apartment's rooms was the school, set up with maps and work tables.

Breakfast was like dinner for the Parkers. Fresh vegetables, especially carrots. Rice and nuts and fruit. Soy cheese, tofu-egg sandwiches. Kimu could do wonders with tofu and the right spices. Lunch was the same, but less — and sometimes they skipped lunch. Dinner was usually light. Snacks were rare, but the children were allowed healthful chips and imitation ice cream.

The Parkers believed in feeding their kids no more than just enough.

Sometimes, they would use a cooking timer to limit how long the kids could sit for a meal. When the bell rang after 20 minutes, the children were done eating.

The Parkers were extremely concerned about child obesity, one of the greatest health scares of our time. They shuddered at the thought of the saturated fat, growth hormones, sugar and toxins in typical American fare. Blair was an armchair nutritionist who felt it was his responsibility and right as a parent to feed the kids the most healthful foods possible. Kimu thought veganism prevented her and the children from asthma attacks.

And because of the good care they believed they were providing, the Parker's children were very healthy.

Except for the seizures.

All the kids had them at times. Caleb's first trip to a doctor came in 1998, when he was 2. He had to be hospitalized at Phoenix Children's Hospital for violent episodes. Doctors told the family then that the children's diet was inadequate, but the Parkers believed they knew best, thinking the real culprit was epilepsy.

Sure, their kids were small. The Parkers knew that. But they thought it was because the kids didn't ingest the steroids in cattle and other meat sources. Plus, Kimu was naturally thin, and the kids may have inherited the trait from her.

The Parkers' diagnosis: The children don't absorb nutrients well.

They used all manner of food supplements for the problem, such as Garden Of Life's Perfect Food, which is powdered vegetables, grass, seeds, seaweed and nutrients.

The Parkers fed their children carefully selected, low-calorie food that was much different from the fatty, sugar-laden fare typical American kids gorge on.

But they knew that what they were doing was extreme. Kimu, a former kindergarten and first-grade teacher, knew that she had probably taken things too far and that the kids were too skinny. She knew they might be taken from her if authorities saw them.

That's one reason why the Parkers didn't call 911 on the night of April 22, 2005, when little Zion began having terrible seizures. Instead, they called Windy Skeete, a Wisconsin woman with mail-order certifications in naturopathy and herbs.

Skeete, who runs a nutrition-oriented fundamentalist Christian ministry and food-supplement store, knew the Parkers from a church in Montana, where they had lived before moving to Scottsdale nine years earlier.

A few months earlier, the Parkers had told Skeete that Zion was losing a lot of weight and seemed to have malabsorption syndrome. Skeete would later tell a jury that she advised the Parkers to try the herbs slippery elm and bilberry.

Then came the late-night phone calls in April. When told that the 3-year-old was having seizures and was cold to the touch, Skeete asked Kimu Parker what kind of herbal medicines the girl had been given. Kimu replied that she had used an anti-spasmodic tincture of lobelia skunk cabbage about four hours earlier, Skeete later testified. Skeete told her to try it again.

Over the next hour or two, the Parkers called Skeete a few more times. At one point on the phone with Kimu, Skeete heard Blair in the background saying Zion was having a grand mal seizure. Skeete suggested a bath to warm her up.

Why she waited so long to tell the Parkers to call 911 when a child was having a serious medical problem is a mystery — she refused to talk about the issue with New Times. But Skeete finally urged the Parkers to seek outside help.

Hospital workers and police bore a heartbreaking sight when they laid eyes on Zion, who weighed 13 pounds.

Doctors at Phoenix Children's Hospital compared her condition with that of a starving Third World child. Her skin was loose on her bones, with hardly any fat or muscle to make it taut. Nearly every tendon and bone was visible. Her heartbeat could be seen in her scrawny chest.

The outraged medical staff at PCH demanded that police bring in the other two children. As expected, doctors found Caleb and Michaela malnourished as well. The boy weighed just 31 pounds. His older sister was barely seven pounds heavier.

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  • anon 12/31/2010 11:24:00 AM

    My mother had a distorted self image which, when she had children, projected onto them as extensions of herself. We grew up believing the bodies we were in were hers, not our own and we lived making daily choices between the love of our mother and food. We were constantly starving, underweight and cold, but that pain was nothing in comparison to being rejected by the mother who couldnt or woulodnt recognise us, who consequently rejected us if we put on weight. I was an adult before I ever tasted coca cola or tried fast food and I still have never eaten meat, fish or eggs of any kind. I remember being nineteen years old and a friend giving me a packet of jelly beans...I took them home, seperated every bean into flavour catagories for over an hour, tasted my first ever jelly bean and then asked myself 'is this taste worth losing my mother's love?' i then, despite being underweight and starving, poured all the beans into the bin. My mother wasn't cruel...she was scared and ill. My best friend was overweight. My mother fed us enough to live, to even play and be quite active. My best friend's parents fed him so much he could not run or skip or ride a bike or fit in clothes or even walk with me to school. They loved him so much they fed him to the point he couldnt function. Similarily, my mother loved us so much she couldnt bare to 'abuse' us with candy etc. Parents need support, education...empathy. I dont look back on my childhood and resent or hate my mother. I look back and feel for her, how much she worried for us, was scared for us, was simply terrified by life itself...to the point she told everyone i was lactose intollerant for 18 years so no one would give me chcocolate or cheese or milk...to the point i spent years thinking cookies could kill me instantly. Meanwhile, my best friend's parents were posting cookies into his mouth like there was going to be an apocolypse tomorrow and we'd be on rations for the next ten years. Me and my mate, luckily, grew up to realise cookies wouldnt kill me and the apocolypse wasn't nigh, but despite that...he's still obese and I'm still underweight. He tries to lose weight, but his family still try feed him up just as quick. I try gain weight, but the mere thought of my mother rejecting me, despite my academic, career and life success simply because I am fat (bmi over 17) makes eating so hard. it isnt evil...its just very sad, very sad indeed.

  • Justify 07/03/2008 8:56:00 PM

    I can not believe the state court system would not tell the jurors about the other children. That makes me sick!

  • Amy 01/25/2008 3:00:00 AM

    The parents in this story, although perhaps well-meaning, were at best deluded and irrational. The problem had nothing to do with being vegan and everything to do with being *starved*. There should have been an intervention with the parents- did no one know how they were restricting the children's food? The reference to setting a timer while the children ate- that would be a great way to induce an eating disorder in a child. I became vegan after my first year of medical school because I found the evidence for a plant-based diet to be so compelling. To the gentleman who insists that children need meat: read "The China Study" by T. Colin Campbell or "Healthy at 100" by John Robbins. In addition, there are many societies in the world in which people eat almost solely plant foods (for example, among observant Orthodox Christians in the Mediterranean) and raise very healthy children. Hypotheses that meat allowed us to grow bigger brains etc. have so many holes in them I don't know where to begin.

  • Elizabeth 08/16/2007 2:44:00 AM

    Sounds to me to be another case of media bias similar to the one about the couple who starved their child to death. The fact that the people are vegan is toatally irrelevant. Their children had problems because they were being fed TOO LITTLE. Had they ingested pus-filled cow's milk, would they have been any healthier? It's a shame that the media feels a need to ostracize minorities. I find it interesting that "parents" who take their children to McDonald's four times a week are not investigated.

  • jeff 08/07/2007 7:29:00 PM

    8/7/07 the author of this piece and his editor needs to have their paychecks malnurished....the tepid and equivocal treatement of child abuse via 'vegan-ism' is effrontry....any evolutionist worth their conviction will demand recognition that it is/was MEAT...carnivore nutrients/calories..that provided the matrix for brain growth...the dinosaurs were huge and vegans yet had little itsty bitsy (sic) because celluose could not be converted into grey/white matter...mylen sheaths ..axions annd the neuro-transmitters...required for higher thought... the editors of this hard news are closed minded and lack intellectual acuity....hereis hard proof that children require MEAT and DAIRY...that ought to be the banner headline... jeff

  • Kelvin Lao 08/05/2007 5:59:00 AM

    Vegan diets are perfectly fine. Vegans and vegetarians don't need to 'combine proteins'. This myth was started by a vegetarian over 30 years ago. A decade after, it was discovered that it was wrong and the author has regretted her protein-combining recommendation since. It's unfortunate that this myth is still so common among people who think they understand vegetarianism. reference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protein_combining And this article is wrong that meat is required. It isn't. Don't try to live solely off of junk food and a few odd tubers like sweet potatoes and casava, get enough calories for the day and you'll get enough protein. Is that rocket science? No. There are many healthy happy, not obese but not starving either, vegan children in this country. There are also, by the way, many overweight and even obese vegans too. Veganism is not the problem here. It sounds to me like the parents have an obsessive compulsive disorder and possibly an eating disorder along the lines of anorexia. Look up "Munchausen syndrome" or "anorexia by proxy". Another clue to this diagnosis is that the article says "the mother is naturally thin". It's good the kids are out of that home because that was unarguably a neglectful environment. But, please, don't blame veganism.

  • Rebecca 08/03/2007 11:34:00 PM

    "Kimu Parker's minimum mandatory sentence of 30 years could be considered wildly excessive. " Are you kidding me??????? She should have been given the death penalty!!!!!! This makes me so sad!!! I'm sitting here looking at my 4 1/2 year old thinking that Kimu's 11yo old weighed less than he does. Makes me absolutely sick to my stomach to think a mother would do this to a child!!!!

  • tarathemis 08/03/2007 2:47:00 AM

    This is clearly not about these parents being vegan --- it's about them being, at best, oblivious, and at worst, mentally ill. I don't care how much they loved their children, HOW does a parent with normal mental functioning allow their children to get to the point that these children were at? Unbelievable. Also, the person they were consulting by phone should be held criminally liable for child endangerment, and NEVER be allowed to provide "advice" to other people about health and nutrition. By the way, I have been a vegetarian for 18 years, and I would NEVER advocate the kind of "lifestyle" these people were living, and forcing on their children. They are very, very sick people.

  • Ray Stern 08/03/2007 12:27:00 AM

    Update: August 2, 2007 Kimu Parker received a 30-year prison sentence.

  • Phyllistine 05/24/2007 2:04:00 AM

    If you're starving your child, he's likely to die relatively soon and has no power to change what's happening. If you're overfeeding him, there's a good chance he'll live to adulthood, when he can make his own food choices. So the danger of underfeeding, while not as widespread, is more imminent and dire. You can talk until you turn blue about the risks of obesity-related illness and decreased lifespan, but it will not make one starving child live one day longer.

  • Teresa 05/23/2007 12:39:00 AM

    1000 vegan MD's know that the major killer in the world is meat fish and dairy www.pcrm.org The multitrillion $ animal agribusiness industries are on the attack.

  • k 05/15/2007 2:19:00 PM

    I feel so sorry for the Parkers.. I lived in the same appartment complex as them and saw them often. They did NOT intentionaly harm those children. when the weather was nice they would have their door open and the kids would go in and out and be playing outside. their appartment was always clean. always. my appartment was right in front of the mailbox and often times i would see their older boy come and get the mail. he was so cute and would say 'hi how are you'. I noticed that the kids appeared short but not extreemly skinny or unhealthy. they just seemed small. I often times saw Blair carrying laundry home from the laundry mat near by. and his kids would be helping him and they would be laughing and talking. and i would also see him giving the kids shoulder rides all the time. they were a very loving and caring family. they were misguided when it came to nutrition and unfortunately it came down to this. i feel so sorry for them because anyone who knew them could see that they loved their kids dearly.

  • Cesar 05/13/2007 9:33:00 PM

    Vegan is the most healthy and nutritional diet there is. Suffering from malnutrition is a totally different thing. Your article makes it sound like being a vegan is the culprit. By the way, the word "vegan" is an abbreviation of the word "vegetarian" and has nothing to do with the star called Vega. Ignorance is definitely not a bliss. Cesar from Tempe, AZ.

  • Laine Lawless 05/12/2007 12:53:00 AM

    Vegetarianism is fine for ADULTS who know what they are doing, and at least HALF of all the vegetarians I've met don't even bother to follow appropriate principles of food-combining in order to get the nutrition they need. Amino acids are a problem with vegan diets; they are plentiful in meat, but not bio-available in plants. Developing young humans need a varied diet that includes meat, as meat provides nutrients that you just can't get effectively any other way. Isn't it interesting that the parents, knowing that their kids didn't look right, and weren't healthy, kept them at home out of public view, and "home-schooled" them? Whne the blinds are drawn, the family is held prisoner, and the children are not allowed a normal childhood with all the socialization that kids need, then that's a clue that the kids are being mistreated. CPS needs to step in as early as possible in these cases, as children are living beings, and as such, cannot be "property," or be "owned" by their parents. Society has a greater responsible to protect those who cannot defend themselves.

  • Cindy Schwartz 05/11/2007 2:16:00 PM

    Kimu deserves all the jail time she can handle. Her husband did more than just give them vegan meals. He made them do extreme calinestics too, every morning. these were monsters. Kimu just knew better. Please dont tell the public that THIS is the way to go. It is very, very wrong.

  • Nicole 05/10/2007 4:34:00 AM

    I understand a parent wanting to make sure that their children are healthy- I have three boys who are aged 11, 4, and 3. I am all in favor of that. But when your children are demonstrating physical signs of illness, there has to be a point where common sense kicks in and you realize that something isn't right. They should have taken their children to an RD, explained their lifestyle, and sought a reasonable solution to provide their children with the nutrition they were apparently lacking. For a child to be small is one thing, but skin and bones and having unexplained seizures is something else. I absolutely believe that blatant ignorance is negligence. Especially after they had already lost a child to 'seizures'. I feel that they knew that they were somehow in the wrong, or they would not have hesitated to call '911'. Those poor children. With all their good intentions, these parents didn't realize their children were starving to death. I blame part of this on the media's constant portrayals of what is considered to be acceptable in our society...whatever happened to focusing solely on health and well-being?

 
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