Greer didn't stop there.
"[Doug] was very protective, and he took care of her so sweetly," she said. "I just never have seen such tenderness that they had for each other . . . And she told me, 'I know that Doug loves me with all his heart,' and she had found the most wonderful husband and how much she loved him."
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"Okay, okay," Ray replied, having heard enough.
Now it was the detective's turn.
He sketched out his case against Doug Grant for the future witnesses, including Doug's continued relationship with Hilary DeWitt after remarrying Faylene and the Ambien prescription.
"I'll tell you there are a lot of things that haven't come out that the media doesn't have," Ray teased. "Very interesting information, and let's leave it at that."
Becky Greer responded, "I would be surprised if he did it. That I would be shocked at."
Ray shot back, "There are some giant red flags."
"If he would have tried to push her or kill her, whatever, he wouldn't have wanted us to talk to her, or to be alone with her," Becky countered. "He would be more secretive in trying to keep away from anybody."
Mel McDonald is known for his legal bluster.
He outdid himself when he wrote in a 175-page legal motion in early 2006 that "there has never been a criminal case in the history of this state where there have been more documentable material misrepresentations of fact during a grand jury presentation than those which occurred in this case."
After taking a hard look at Sy Ray's grand jury testimony, Superior Court Judge David Talamante may have agreed with McDonald. In the spring of 2006, the judge returned the case to the grand jury for reconsideration, an unusual action.
By then, the County Attorney's Office had put one of its heaviest hitters on the case, veteran homicide prosecutor Juan Martinez.
That July 21, Martinez and Detective Ray returned to the grand-jury room for round two.
The pair now alleged that Doug was a self-described "sex addict" who had engaged in multiple affairs during his first marriage to Faylene (he had) and then wanted out of the remarriage to get back with ex-girlfriend Hilary, the irresistible 19-year-old.
Ray testified that Faylene wouldn't wear revealing clothes or thong underwear as would Hilary, and "this would bother Mr. Grant."
Martinez asked, "She did not please him in the bedroom?"
"Correct," Ray said. "He would complain he wasn't sexually satisfied with her. He stated that he was a sex addict. That he had to have sex all the time."
Ray cleaned up some of his errors from the first grand jury, such as the site of Doug and Faylene's July 2001 wedding.
But he repeated many of his dubious big points, including Doug Grant's alleged "wait for me" and "miss those hips" comments.
The detective made the meeting between Doug and Hilary in the park sound even spicier, testifying that Grant had "grabbed her by the hips, pulled him into her, where their pelvic areas had contact. Explained to her he had missed these."
Ray also repeated his gross misstatement that Doug Grant had approached Chad White for the Ambien prescription as the physician assistant "is preparing to leave," a notion that conjured malevolent implications.
Detective Ray referred briefly to his interview with the Greers in Utah, insisting that Doug had done all the explaining to the couple about Faylene's fall — another misstatement.
Again, the prosecution downplayed Faylene's death-obsessed writings, even though there were copies of her journals on hand for the panel to look at, if members wanted to.
But Juan Martinez cleverly didn't mention the journals until near the end of his presentation, and almost in passing.
Detective Ray spoke briefly to the possibility that Faylene Grant had committed suicide.
"If you commit suicide, you won't get to the highest Celestial Kingdom," he explained to the grand jury, a point with which several LDS officials (contacted by New Times for last week's story) disagree.
Prosecutor Martinez eliminated onetime star witness Jim McElyea from this second presentation.
Like the first grand jury, this panel took only minutes before issuing a murder indictment against Doug Grant.
At the end, Faylene Grant's life was about God, family, friends, and (no getting around this) her husband.
Though Faylene remained fixated on what she believed to be the inevitability of her imminent death, she also seemed more content with her life than she had been in years.
After she remarried Doug Grant in July 2001, her general mood (as exemplified in her writings and in conversations with loved ones) brightened until she died.
Yet Ray didn't want to see it that way.
"This is a case where Doug 100 percent manipulated Faylene totally," the detective told Mel McDonald in 2005. "The happiest time of her life, yet she's gonna go kill herself? None of it adds up."
He's right. Things don't add up in this case.
A text on suicide says, "Friends and families of suicide victims are often confounded with a sense that this was not a suicide because of the cheerfulness of [the] person."
That describes Faylene Grant in her last weeks.