Ray sounds like a prideful, ass. The flight attendants crossed the line by lying. They shouldn't fly with a pilot if they don't trust the pilots decisions. However, pilots like Ray here are the pricks that make attendants like, Sonia Hartwick, to nervous to say anything. Pilots are in charge and should be able to manage a crew that invites input but also shows confidence in the final decision. as a side note i bet ray is divorced and has a couple kids that hate him.